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Jumaat, 29 Oktober 2010

Cinta, suka atau nafsu?

I'm feeling something, but I can't really quite describe it. Everything about my new mate has floating on cloud nine. The relationship is only a few weeks old, but one thing I know is certain, I've never felt this way before.

Mungkinkah aku sedang jatuh cinta? Atau, boleh jadi itu nafsu? Bagaimana nak membezakan itu cinta, suka atau nafsu??

Aku terbaca sebuah artikel oleh seorang pakar psikologi dari Lewis Universiti in Romeoville mengatakan "It can be easy to confuse love, like and lust because love does contain elements of like and lust, especially in the early stages of a relationship."






"Like and lust come first when we begin to develop a sense of romantic attraction to someone. In fact, we tend to use how much we like someone and our level of sexual attractiveness to them as an indicator of whether or not we can eventually enter into an enduring love relationship with them.


Like often includes feelings of congeniality and similarity to another person. We like partners we feel comfortable with, who listen to us, make us laugh, as well as someone who is supportive of us. Oftentimes, we like people with whom we feel a quick sense of connectedness.


"Lust is a sexual desire ... You feel lust physically. When we lust after someone, we often feel infatuated with them and preoccupied with their physical appearance."

Tapi melihat sekeliling yang berlaku dalam hidup aku, dengan cara yang terlalu bebas dan easy going agaknya cinta yang sebenar-benar cinta itu tidak wujud. Boleh tak aku meminta sesuatu yang ridiculous dari Tuhan untuk mengambil semula rasa ingin dicinta dan menyintai dari aku?? Aku tak mahu perasaan itu berselirat dalam kepala otak aku!!


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