Macamana nak tahu mamat ni dah kahwin ke belum?

Macamana nak tahu mamat ni dah kahwin? Mesti kita membayangkan lelaki macam tu nampak cool, segak, kemas, body language, cara dia flirting, i mean the way he speak, cara dia bagi attention pada kita dan macam-macam cara yang lelaki bujang hingusan tak mampu buat.

Jadi, persoalannya sekarang, kalau seseorang lelaki itu lagaknya seperti orang bujang, macamana nak kenal pasti yang dia memang betul bujang?

SENANG SAJA.

Dengar kata hati korang. Kalau korang merasakan sebegitu, betullah tu.

Biasanya otak separuh sedar kita secara tak langsung dah generate beribu clues dalam masa korang tengah berkira-kira status mamat itu. Kita akan sedar dengan kerdipan mata, cara pandangan, perbuatan, percakapan bukan lisan (body language) yang mewujudkan satu gambaran dan memberitahu korang melalui firasat. Percayalah dengan firasat itu.

Kita selalu dengar ramai perempuan terpedaya dengan lelaki buaya macam ni. Yang menipu kononnya masih bujang sedangkan kebanyakan perempuan ni dah rasa ada yang tak kena. Tapi biasalah bila dah suka, yang negatif tu diletak ke tepi. Kita nak juga percaya dia bujang sedangkan dah berbini dan beranak empat.

Maka dengarlah kata hati. Boleh macam tu? Ada apa-apa bantahan kaum lelaki?

Kalau ada jantan yang mengaku bujang, menipu bini dia, dia cuma nak yang tut.... satu perkara tu saja. Stended. Tak mustahil satu hari nanti dia pun tipu korang pula.

Do not get involved with such a man. You deserve a whole lot better!

Selamat bersolat Jumaat semua~

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Padah racist sangat... (tapi tak adalah padah sangat pun)

A Logical but True Story This scene took place on a British Airways flight between Johannesburg, South Africa & London. A white woman, about 50 years old, was seated next to a black man. Very disturbed by this, she called the air hostess. 'You obviously do not see it then?' she asked. 'You placed me next to a black man. I did not agree to sit next to someone from such a repugnant group. Give me an alternative seat.' 'Be calm please,' the A Logical but True Story This scene took place on a British Airways flight between Johannesburg, South Africa & London. A white woman, about 50 years old, was seated next to a black man. Very disturbed by this, she called the air hostess. 'You obviously do not see it then?' she asked. 'You placed me next to a black man. I did not agree to sit next to someone from such a repugnant group. Give me an alternative seat.' 'Be calm please,' the hostess replied. 'Almost all the places on this flight are taken. I will go to see if another place is available.' The hostess went away & then came back a few minutes later. 'Madam, just as I thought, there are no other available seats in Economy Class. I spoke to the captain & he informed me that there is also no seat in Business Class. All the same, we still have one place in First Class.' Before the woman could say anything, the hostess continued. 'It is unusual for our company to permit someone from Economy Class to sit in First Class. However, given the circumstances, the captain feels that it would be scandalous to make someone sit next to someone so disgusting.' She turned to the black guy & said, 'Therefore, Sir, if you would like to, please collect your hand luggage, a seat awaits you in First Class.' At that moment, the other passengers, who'd been shocked by what they had just witnessed, stood up & applauded. *** Setakat ini dahulu, hostess replied. 'Almost all the places on this flight are taken. I will go to see if another place is available.' The hostess went away & then came back a few minutes later. 'Madam, just as I thought, there are no other available seats in Economy Class. I spoke to the captain & he informed me that there is also no seat in Business Class. All the same, we still have one place in First Class.' Before the woman could say anything, the hostess continued. 'It is unusual for our company to permit someone from Economy Class to sit in First Class. However, given the circumstances, the captain feels that it would be scandalous to make someone sit next to someone so disgusting.' She turned to the black guy & said, 'Therefore, Sir, if you would like to, please collect your hand luggage, a seat awaits you in First Class.' At that moment, the other passengers, who'd been shocked by what they had just witnessed, stood up & applauded. *** Actually kat mana-mana tempat pun boleh berlaku racist. Tak kira pendalaman, bandar besar, mesti ada puak-puak yang merasa diri terlalu bagus. Tak terkecuali aku. Aku tak suka orang Pantai Timur. Tu dikira racist ke? Tapi bila fikir-fikir balik, tak kan sebab nila setitik rosak susu sebelanga, kan? Kenapa aku meluat dengan dorang? Adalah satu kes yang pernah berlaku dulu... So i make friend, be friend dengan bangsa mereka ini. So it happened that my 1st ex-bosses were Kelantanese. True blood. There was long time ago, about year 2005. Bila dah kerja lama-lama dengan dorang, tak adalah rasa annoying sangat. Masa tu terbuka sikit hati mengatakan Kelantanese wasn't that bad, it just certain people. And bila dah pindah dari ofis lama, i miss them so much. Tak semua orang Pantai Timur ni berpuak-puak, tak semua yang terlalu tertutup mindanya, tak semua yang suka mendabik dada. Ingatkan senario begini tak jumpa dah bila umur dah meningkat, tapi, ada juga ok? Macam apa yang kita buat semua tak betul, dia saja yang betul. Kita tak pernah sampai tempat tu, dia sorang saja lah yang dah explore tempat tu. Pendek kata semua nak lebih. Dah tu, bercampur dengan komuniti kita tak mahu pula bercakap bahasa universal.  Tapi itulah attitude. Dah sebati. Tak boleh nak ubah. Semangat kekitaan yang tinggi. I'm not bashing the Kelantanese tau? Jangan salah faham pulak. Mungkin pengalaman aku tu asyik jumpa yang tak best je. Moral of the story: Jangan rasa diri kita seorang je best. Show off ala kadar je. Boleh?

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* source of story from Pyaar Juhi

Quote of the day

I gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which I must stop and look fear in the face... I say to myself, I've lived through this and can take the next thing that comes along... We must do the things we think we cannot do.

~Eleanor Roosevelt~

Maybe today is the day you decide enough is enough.

Maybe today you will know that you are worth more than what you are getting, and do not deserve what you are tolerating.

Maybe today is the very day you will make a choice that will bring you peace and happiness.

Maybe today you will find the courage inside yourself to do the thing you think you cannot do.




 

Betul ke pakar matematik lebih terer dari menteri kewangan???

Fakta atau bidaah??

(kredit kepada Cursing Malay)

Mari berfikir dan buat pilihan tepat. Selamat beramal!!




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Masih ada lagi kah reader blog saya??

Wuuu....wuu....wuuu.... nak nangis. Dah lama tak dapat nak update blog. Ke-bizi-ness yang melampau mencetus kemalasan untuk berblog.

Okey, ini image doctor, saja nak berangan kan. Tapi gini la nak mengadap figure dan key in dalam report.

Kenapa saya seorang je yang macam bizi? Macam orang lain tak bizi, tak keje kan? Beginilah kalau jadi kerani yang berkuasa. Di luar boleh jegil-jegil mata dengan peniaga sambil bercekak pinggang, balik ke pejabat hantar report pula ke cawangan negeri/ibupejabat. Sudahnya saya gagal dalam pengurusan masa. Hampir setiap hari balik lewat malam. Mujur tak ada laki, kalau tak... dah kena talak kot.

Selagi isu bekalan barang runcit keperluan harian tak selesai, maka begini lah keadaan saya. Dah 3bulan lebih saya tak pulang menjenguk orang tua saya. Dem! Saya perlukan masa tambahan, 24jam bagaikan terlalu singkat. Minyak masak, sangat membebankan saya. Saya dah tiada masa untuk bersosial, untuk bercinta dan lebih malapetaka berat saya kian bertambah!! OMG!! Berat badan saya dah separuh dari berat seekor babi! 

Blog fotografi saya juga makin terabai. Grafik kad laptop saya pula jahanam. Asyik mengedit gambar guna Lightroom dan mengakibatkan keupayaan laptop saya terganggu. Jadi disebabkan laptop saya cuma boleh on selama 5minit sahaja, maka saya pun rasa seperti mahu bersara.

Asyik-asyik mengeluh je kan saya ni? Nak buat macamana... walaupun terlalu banyak cerita nak diceritakan. Ce citer...ce citer... next time je la... I'm signing off.

Eh... SELAMAT TAHUN BARU CINA!!

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